Getting back on the track of getting your house in oder (see earlier post "Tools for Getting Your House In Oder") your next best step is to set priorities.  Take a look at the self inventory you completed.  What were the categories in which you scored the highest?  What were the lowest three?  Do you feel confident and comfortable that you can make changes in the three lowest areas?  is it within the realm of your control at this time?  If something is not in your control at this time, then you need to set it aside until a time in the future when it will be under your control.  Work on other areas now, those that you can control. 

For example, if you are going through a divorce the proceedings may not allow you to work on creating more romance in your life at this time. 

Prioritize the top three.  Put the first priority at the top of the list.  Consider the goal you jotted down earlier.  Is it still a good goal and is the target date realistic?  If not, then set a new goal and target date. 

Do the same with the other two categories in your lowest three.  When you are done, you know where to focus your efforts and energy to make the biggest difference.

More later.